Guess what I did five days before attending a cocktail party? Made the worst mistake. I ordered a dress online. It began innocently. I was perusing my favorite retailers to help cure my morning blues. Every site I visited had HUGE markdowns. Who could resist slashed prices and guaranteed delivery? Not me.
Cyber Monday was my solution. The flickering sale signs lured me in.
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I had $80.00 that needed to be burned. I thought, “It’s okay to burn a hole in my pocket because I deserve it,” you know? No arm twisting needed here.
Besides the dress was speaking to me from my laptop. Buy Me. I promise to look better in person. What can I say, I’m a sucker for sequins. That, and I felt it was my duty to contribute to Monday’s online sales record, which reached 1.5 billion by day’s end.
The minute I hit ‘click’ I regretted my purchase. Post buyer’s remorse is nothing new. In fact, I’m quite familiar with this condition. By the time I purchase a ‘must have’ item, and return home, the item has already lost its appeal.
This moment of impulse was different from moments past. I didn’t get to touch the garment. Smell it. Or, try it on. Nope. There was NO sensory experience. Perhaps that is one of the drawbacks to online shopping. It’s a virtual high. Not a tangible one.
Despite the disadvantages to online shopping, I’m not convinced it’s enough to quit. Since having kids, online shopping has been my godsend. I pride myself in no longer having to sift through dizzying racks for halfway decent articles of clothing. Definitely no more waiting in long lines. The only thing e-commerce requires is computer access and a credit card.
Convenience.
High levels of convenience and competitive pricing keep me coming back for more. However, this recent purchase caused me to re-evaluate online ordering. When the dress arrived yesterday it was nothing like I imagined. It was missing about a yard of material and had built-in shoulder pads.
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Shopping with the click of a mouse might not be as beneficial as I once thought. Sure, I can make purchases in my pj’s and avoid scary salespeople. Maybe I can even help save the earth by not printing a receipt. But the flip side is that there is no guarantee I will like the item I ordered.
Nevertheless, there’s something to be said about the anticipation of receiving an item.
You know the feeling I’m talking about, when a package arrives on your doorstep. Sitting there all crinkled and crumbled just waiting there for you to open. It’s like Christmas shows up early!
Unfortunately, the hand delivered goods did not meet my expectations. For now, I will stick to PLAN B for this weekend’s outing. As for future online orders, I’m taking a brief respite. That’s what happens when there’s no consensus in the dressing room.
Do you order clothes without trying them on first? Or, is it just too risky?
I generally have not had good luck with buying clothing online. I prefer to try it on. Items vary so much based on brand, and even within a certain store, different STYLES of something can run large or small. In my case, being on the shorter side, I HAVE to try my pants/jeans on to make sure they are the right length. Generally speaking, most of my online clothing purchases have led to disappointment. I try to avoid it now as much as possible. For other items though, I have no problem shopping online.
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Posted by Michelle Frost | November 28, 2012, 6:21 amYou’re absolutely right about the the varying sizes and fits. It drives me bonkers. An item from GAP fits totally different from the same item at Macy’s. I think I will take a break from ordering apparel online. Might just to stick to ordering books and bedding. Items that don’t require me trying them on.
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 8:53 amI feel you on this! I love online shopping, especially since having my son, for the same reasons you listed. A few months ago I was getting him in the car, garage door open. UPS pulls up and runs up my driveway with a package. I met him half way. He says, “You really LOVE Amazon, don’t you?!?” I smiled awkwardly and kind of laughed and said “yeah” He said, “I have never seen ANYTHING like it!” Then ran back to the truck! THE UPS MAN called me out on my online shopping! OMG I almost died. He has to see a lot of things, and me, this normal lady, going about her business, drew his attention because of my box amount…..As far as clothing, not really. I have to try things on. I did order some workout clothing from a store I am familiar with, because I know my sizes in their stuff, and it is workout stuff. They also have a store nearby so I can return/exchange in person if I need to. I have been regularly checking the shipping status, because I am anxious for it to arrive, to open it, and see if they are what I thought they would be. Estimated delivery is Friday.
Posted by fitmommaboom | November 28, 2012, 6:24 amHa! I can’t believe your UPS delivery guy actually called you out on your addiction. That’s a crack up. He definitely knows you LOVE Amazon.com. I can’t blame you. Amazon IS my go to place for online ordering. I’ve ordered vitamins, face lotion, books, and tons of other stuff from this mega giant. I always feel secure ordering from them. As for the package you’re eagerly awaiting, I hope it’s everything you hoped for.
Just one more day until you find out!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 10:30 amFor me, it’s hard to buy clothes online because I like to know how it looks on me and let’s face it – I don’t look like a tall model! I’m only 5’2″!
Posted by momtimes4 | November 28, 2012, 6:30 amI think that’s the problem. These retailers show all these beautiful dresses on models that have legs for days. It’s a bit misleading. I fell for the marketing trap this time but I won’t be making that mistake anytime soon!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 8:58 amWhen Mr, Cheeky Diva and I were just starting our long distance relationship, and hadn’t seen each other yet (after a 25 year separation), we planned a huge New Years Eve weekend together in Omaha, complete with dinner and a show. I got so excited, but had nothing to wear. (seriously! Not a thing). So I ordered a beautiful black cocktail dress from Chadwicks. It was absolutely gorgeous. Prettiest dress I have. After a little help from a seamstress, it fit perfectly. We are planning to re-create that amazing Lifetime Movie first date this year, as we are all married now and junk. Keep your fingers crossed for me. I hope against hope that I can get that awesome dress zipped! Moo!
Posted by thecheekydiva | November 28, 2012, 6:39 amSounds like you had the same dilemma as me, nothing to wear. The only difference is that your dress was a winner! I think it’s beautiful that you and Mr. Cheeky are going to recreate that milestone date at the end of this year. As for getting back into your gorgeous black dress, I’m sure it will fit like a glove. If, by chance, you have trouble getting the dress zipped up, you can always try the ‘laying on the bed and zipping yourself up’ maneuver. Works for me!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:43 amSince it zips in the back, that may be an issue. The seamstress didn’t do the best job. I needed to be helped in and out of it on that perfect date. Now that I’ve porked on some pounds, I might have to just wear something else.
Posted by thecheekydiva | November 28, 2012, 10:47 amI always wondered about this! I have had good luck usually when ordering in the past for my old store and now buying retail for the spa I work for… I usually go to LA and like to see the lining of purses etc… but as far as gifty and costume jewelry items… I have actually been pleasantly surprised. But a friend of mine was talking about ordering brides maid dresses on line.. much cheaper etc… good to know, not the way to go! lol. Good that most credit card companies will fight for you and you probably used a credit card to make your purchase. Great info! Thanks!!!
Posted by coastalmom | November 28, 2012, 6:46 amOh, ordering brides maid dresses online. Hmm . . . I haven’t heard of anyone plunge into buying fancy gowns on the internet. Let me know how that goes. Hopefully, there is a good return policy. Have a fabulous Thursday, Diane!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 10:33 amI have the worst luck with shopping on line for clothing – therefore I’ve given up on it.
But at the same time it’s hard to pass up a good deal on line or if you don’t have the store within driving distance to shop in person.
I’m sure Plan B will be great.
Posted by Piper's Run | November 28, 2012, 6:48 amAfter this purchase, I am quite convinced that I am unlucky in ordering clothing online as well. Good deals are hard to pass up but I think I will calculate the cost before pushing the submit button next time. Now, I have to deal with return shipping!
By the way, I loved your 38 week pregnancy photo. You’re in the home stretch!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:38 pmI have ordered clothes on line. I am pretty squarely built so I know what to get and not get. Not any worse luck doing on line shopping than at the store shopping.
You get used to knowing what squares wear. 
Posted by Chatter Master | November 28, 2012, 7:13 amShopping is tricky. On the one hand, no one wants to go through the effort of undressing dozens of times in a fitting room. On the other, no one wants to risk ordering a dress that only twelve year olds could fit. Perhaps we should stick to ordering what we LOVE best, chocolate and coffee! Much safer route
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:37 amWell there’s a good suggestion. And it so happens we do order some of my coffee on-line!
Posted by Chatter Master | November 28, 2012, 11:18 amMust go to the store. Things look so good online that I usually order one in every color!! Who does that? Then, I don’t have to return just one item, it’s 2 or 3 of the same item. Not good.
Posted by greenandclean | November 28, 2012, 8:29 amI’d have the tendency to do the same thing. Get so excited and order a dress/shirt in every color. But going to the mall and fighting crowds wears on my patience. Guess it’s that or standing in line at the post office. Either way there is going to be lots of waiting involved.
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:31 amNOOOOOOO!!!! Shoulder pads????
I love sequins. Love them. I want to put on sequins and go for cocktails and chocolate raisinettes with you!
Posted by mylifeisthebestlife | November 28, 2012, 8:57 amShoulder pads! NO JOKE! I was mortified. As for cocktails and sequins, sign me up. Nothing says girls night like bits of chocolate and sparkle!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:03 amAnd no…I can’t do it. I’m 6’1. I NEED to try things on.
Posted by mylifeisthebestlife | November 28, 2012, 8:58 amReally? So, you would definitely need another yard of material. This dress was so teeny tiny it would’ve looked like a tunic on you!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:00 amI could probably wear it as a tank top. A tank top with shoulder pads.
Posted by mylifeisthebestlife | November 28, 2012, 9:58 amYou’re the BEST!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 1:57 pmNot anymore…I learnt my lesson with my wedding dress! Lucky the bridal shop could do a rush order for my dream dress…for an extra cost!
Posted by balancedwesomeness | November 28, 2012, 2:30 pmpressed wrong reply button hehehe should have been top one…lucky I don’t online shop on my phone hahaha
Posted by balancedwesomeness | November 28, 2012, 2:31 pmHa ha! I’ve pressed the wrong button many times before too! Wish WP had a way to edit comments. As for your wedding dress, that is not something you want to gamble with. Yikes! Fortunately, the bridal shop did a rush order for you. You must have been chomping at the bit waiting for the final product to arrive!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 2:41 pmDuring my maternity leave, I ordered a new item from Amazon almost daily just to have something to anticipate! Many of those items were nursing tops of increasing sparkliness. Other than that, I’ve avoided buying clothing online, because I frankly suck at determining what’s going to look good in the dressing room based even on what’s on the shelf.
The shoulder pad bit had me snickering. They still include those? I used to get in such trouble with my mom for cutting shoulder pads out of her shirts and jackets so they’d look better on me. I told her I was doing her a favor, but she never did believe me.
Posted by Deborah the Closet Monster | November 28, 2012, 9:07 amOh, Amazon was such a godsend during my pregnancies too. Zappos was a close second. I ordered maternity tunics from there as well. For some reason, I was more on point with my purchasing decisions when I was with child than without.
This order was truly a doozy! I had NO idea the dress had built-in shoulder pads. Certainly, the retailer was smart enough to leave this detail out of the item description. Otherwise, they probably wouldn’t be able to sell the dress. As for cutting the shoulder pads out as a child, I made several attempts to do this as well. But always got caught. You must have been raised during the 80′s like me. The music of the 80′s was legendary, the shoulder pads not so much!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:17 amIs that picture the actual dress? I’m not brave enough to shop on-line. I find it hard enough to shop in person! I once bought this gorgeous necklace on-line. GORGEOUS! I stalked it until it went on sale and then I had a promo code to boot. LOVED IT! Ordered it after months of stalking it. Received it. Vowed to wear it every single day. Have never had it on, not even once. It’s still gorgeous but a bit much with yoga pants. One day when I meet royalty, I might just blow the dust off it and give it a whirl! Maybe.
Posted by fatliesandfairytales | November 28, 2012, 9:22 amThat’s exactly why I missed you terribly! Yoga pants and a flashy necklace. I can see it now . . . maybe you’ll get an opportunity to blow the dust off your necklace at the 1st Annual Closet Blogger Award show!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 9:27 amYES!!!! GREAT IDEA!! That’s exactly where I shall wear it. Fancy schmancy, that’s how I roll!
Posted by fatliesandfairytales | November 28, 2012, 10:43 amI have a hard time ordering clothing online for that very reason. I’ve ordered shoes and accessories and for the most part have had good experiences, but online shopping is mostly hit or miss overall. Unless, it’s a designer or store you’re familiar with (you’ve tried on in person, felt the fabric, etc.) it’s a total gamble! Now toys for Christmas…that’s a different story! Thank God for internet shopping in that aspect!
Posted by littlemisswordy | November 28, 2012, 9:54 amI have good experiences with buying shoes online too. Though I have never ordered accessories on the internet. As for Christmas toys, online shopping is my saving grace. It’s completely hassle-free. LOVE it! Just point and click!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 2:21 pmUs guys don’t shop. We just throw it away.
Posted by Mustang.Koji | November 28, 2012, 9:57 amDon’t remind me how easy guys have it. LUCKY!!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 2:22 pmI dunt tink so (via Ricky Ricardo warning Lucy)! Especially in California! lol
Posted by Mustang.Koji | November 28, 2012, 3:05 pmHey, I remember your vow renewal wedding dress photo!! I think you can pull this off!! Snip out the shoulder pads (as we all learned to do in the mid 90′s) and go for it!!!
Posted by motherhoodisanart | November 28, 2012, 12:15 pmYou’re sweet, Melissa! I should’ve known that you’d find a way to salvage this dress. You’re such a creative gal. I could probably keep the dress and wear it for Halloween. Pair it with leggings, go-go boots, and I’m all set to go!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 9:11 amI read reviews and look at the height and weight of the model. Don’t want another mistake when a dress did not suit my body type. At least i try but i don’t believe it would erase any chance of an error..
Posted by doverock | November 28, 2012, 1:34 pmReviews usually steer me in the right direction too. But since there were none listed, I turned to the measuring chart. It stated the model was 5’11″ and wears a size small. I decided to purchase the dress in a size medium thinking it would be long enough. No such luck! The dress looked like it should be paired with leggings. So darn short!
But you’re right, it is always a gamble when you’re ordering online. Glad you stopped by. Hope all is well!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 1:44 pmHonestly never ordered clothes off the net. Bought a pair of shoes on ebay once but even that was risky and they’re a bit too big. I’m just too skeptical to try again. Once burnt twice shy i guess.
Posted by cupcakemummy | November 28, 2012, 1:47 pmLearn from my mistake! Definitely don’t risk purchasing a dress online. I feel a bit different towards ordering shoes off the net. Thankfully, I’ve had a 90% success rate with shoes. Plus, I always get free shipping. Even so, it’s better to be safe than sorry. Happy to hear from you. Hope you and Fysh are doing good!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 1:53 pmIf I know the store really well, than I shop on-line. A size six at one store does not look the same as a size 6 at another store. I did not do well with shoes on-line at all lol
Posted by shawnrjones12 | November 28, 2012, 2:22 pmReally? No luck with shoes. I have tons more success with shoes! But you’re right, if you’re already familiar with the retailer and their sizing, then it’s probably safe to order the dress online. Thanks for stopping by, Shawn! Have a great evening!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 28, 2012, 2:24 pmOh how I adore shopping online!! As you mentioned, avoiding the scary salespeople is the best, but the anticipation of receiving a package — well, it never gets old! Never!!
Posted by Running from Hell with El | November 28, 2012, 3:14 pmI think it’s the anticipation that gives me an adrenaline rush too! The convenience is another selling point for online ordering. I try to avoid the mall at all costs. Hope you are doing well on this Thursday, El!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 9:14 amI love love love a million times love shopping online, but I am pretty careful about where I will shop and now that more and more stores offer free shipping/free returns I almost exclusively patronize those stores unless I know my size in another shop or feel the risk is worth the possiblity of having to pay for return shipping!
Posted by The Traveling Circus | November 28, 2012, 3:46 pmI’m sure shopping online is super convenient for you since you’re overseas. Out of curiosity does Amazon.com ship overseas? I’m sure they do. Have you ever purchased anything from Zappos.com? They have incredible deals on shoes. I am way more confident ordering shoes online than apparel. Sounds like you have online shopping down to an art form!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 3:29 pmNot many places deliver here without exorbitant fees for shipping, there is an amazon.jp but it is still mostly book unlike our Amazon. I have used Zappos for running shoes since I can order a number of pair but send them back without paying return shipping! Even when we’re home in the US for summer I shop online because I love trying on clothes at home, in my normal environment and I have a better time finding deals online!
Posted by The Traveling Circus | December 1, 2012, 3:56 pmI love online shopping but shop clothes only from one or two brand stores that I know well – otherwise bound to be disappointed with the feel and/or the fit. Shoes much easier to get “right” w/o trying them on. I’m sure plan B will work just fine. Have fun
Posted by tiny lessons blog | November 28, 2012, 7:22 pmI feel the same way. With shoes there is little risk. I find that I am satisfied nine times out of ten with shoe purchases. And yes, plan B will work just fine. It’s a long sleeve dress. More appropriate for the cooler temps. Hope you have a lovely evening!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 3:40 pmI too have had bad experiences online. I have ended up spending quite a bit of money to return stuff – not really very satisfying, and has put me off for a while too. I dream of one day having a stylist who just stocks my wardrobe for me. No more shopping required – online or otherwise. Wouldn’t that be amazing…
Posted by charlotterose | November 28, 2012, 7:46 pmNow you’re talking! A stylist sounds dreamy. Can you imagine waking up to a closet full of brand new clothes? Stocked with the current trends of the season. That would be magical! Though I’d still opt for my yoga pants on most days. They are like a second skin!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 3:23 pmI think that your blog is fabulous, so I nominated you for the One Lovely Blog Award. Check out my blog post for details: http://dressedinmycloset.wordpress.com/2012/11/28/one-lovely-blog-award/
Posted by DressedinMYcloset | November 28, 2012, 10:33 pmThank you, Ally! I will definitely check out the details. And congrats to you for receiving this award!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 9:18 amBefore I got my work-from-home gig, I ordered clothes online ALL of the time. And it got to the point where the people who worked at my Post Office knew me by name because I was constantly sending stuff back!!!! I don’t know what the lure is, but online shopping definitely gets me every time!
Posted by whencrazymeetsexhaustion | November 29, 2012, 4:07 amOh gosh, I remember that ordering online CRAZE. It started when I gave birth to my first child and tapered off when she turned two. Maybe it was a strange coping mechanism. Whatever the case, I remember getting a rush every time a new package arrived. Sounds like you still enjoy the online shopping high too!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 10:42 amI love it for things I know I will love/need and some picks are easy..books, electronics, etc. But clothes scare me. For me, it’s the sizes. I can never guess by looking at it if this # is the same # as the store down the street. Plus one company’s size # is not another company’s size #. I’ve had great experiences and terrible ones. I try to only do replacement clothes shopping (i.e., I already have these pants from Old Navy and know the size, I just need another pair) online.
I’m totally with you on the ‘feels like Christmas’ feeling. I love getting those boxes and seeing the FedEx truck!
Posted by Kerry's Organized Chaos | November 29, 2012, 4:23 amFunny that you mention Old Navy. Because that’s the only store in addition to GAP, their sister company, that I feel safe ordering from. I also love that you could return an online order at your local store. Guess there are some redeeming things about shopping on the internet. You just have to know when and where to buy from. Have a wonderful evening, Kerry!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 3:37 pmI do very little clothing shopping for myself online. I’m picky, picky, picky, hard to fit, and have an inexplicably difficult time getting to the post office to make returns. That said, I have done it occasionally, and will again, and use online shopping regularly for my boys.
Of course, I’m a weirdo that orders livestock for my tank online, so what do I know? :p
Posted by mrs fringe | November 29, 2012, 4:50 amHa! That’s great! Who knew you could order livestock online? How do they package something like that? So curious.
As for trips to the post office, you have no idea how much I dread sending returns back. My son is always climbing on the counters trying to steal the priority mail labels!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 4:47 pmEven if I have the luxury of going by myself, I still hate the PO.
Fish, corals, and inverts are shipped in individual plastic bags 1/3-1/2 filled with saltwater, and then air, sealed at the top. Cushioning of newspaper or packing peanuts in between the bags, heat packs across the top. All of this in a sealed styrofoam cooler type box, then inside a cardboard box. I’ve often paid more for the shipping than the critter.
Posted by mrs fringe | November 29, 2012, 5:03 pmUnbelievable! Thanks for breaking it down in such detail. I think that’s fascinating that retailers can ship livestock. But then again, people order meat and dairy products online as well. So, they have to make provisions for various forms of refrigeration. Or, in the case of your fish, AIR.
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Posted by mrs fringe | November 29, 2012, 5:27 pmReading this piece was like watching ‘Confessions of a Shopaholic’ with my girl!
Posted by Ganesh Raam | November 29, 2012, 8:47 amSounds funny. Though I’ve never seen the movie I’m sure I could relate!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 29, 2012, 10:58 amYou could absolutely relate yourself to this movie.. Though a Chick flick, its still funny
Posted by Ganesh Raam | November 30, 2012, 10:09 amare shoulder pads back?
oh no! I have never bought clothing online because I am scared about it (I’m short) 
but yesterday considering buying a cooking book online but I’m still scared too! 
it looks like a very nice dress in the picture! 
Posted by now at home mom | November 30, 2012, 12:16 pmReally? I imagined you to be tall. Love your gravatar pic by the way. Very cute! Anyway, about ordering online, I’d would definitely consider a cookbook purchase over an article of clothing. Especially if the retailer offers free shipping. As for the dress, it looked adorable on the model, but let’s just say when I tried it on, not so much!
Hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 30, 2012, 6:39 pmMe tall? no !
but would love to be! 
ha!ha! 
thanks, the pic from the gravatar my hubby took it, it took a while for him to take one that looked ok! so this one ended up with me making making a face! 
Thank you, and hope you guys have a nice weekend too! 
Posted by now at home mom | December 1, 2012, 3:52 pmI shop at Forever 21 a few times every year (I suppose La Senza doesn’t count because you know your size and all) and it is absolutely incredible how few things haven’t fit. I mean, they do look different than I expected and there’s some disappointment, but I must have the devil’s luck when it comes to guessing size and fit. Also, this is all because a bus ride to the nearest mall is about an hour… Not worth it when Purolator comes to the door.
Posted by lly1205 | November 30, 2012, 5:16 pmEw . . . if I were you I’d take my chances ordering online too! Plus, I think Forever 21 offers free shipping on returns. Incidentally, I have good luck with ordering cardigans from their web site. Glad you stopped by! Looking forward to checking out your blog later this evening!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 30, 2012, 6:48 pmAnd of course if you order $60+ its free on the way to you as well… Haha a sneaky and effective way to get my money. Thanks! It’s not really like yours, I generally fail at being funny, but I hope it will be interesting
Posted by lly1205 | November 30, 2012, 6:52 pmOh, I would never consider myself funny. My kids are the ones who provide me with good fodder for writing. I’m just along for the wild ride. But thanks for the nod. Now, I can go tell hubby somebody thinks I’m “funny.” He’ll get a great BIG laugh out of it!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 30, 2012, 6:55 pmBut your posts really are amusing! I don’t have anything funny to write about. Aww I’m glad to give you ammunition, if someone told me I was funny I’d probably go running to my boyfriend!
Posted by lly1205 | November 30, 2012, 6:58 pmHa ha! See there. See what you did. You just made me laugh out loud! Consider yourself off to a VERY good start my friend!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 30, 2012, 6:59 pmWait, really? How?!
Posted by lly1205 | November 30, 2012, 7:00 pmI imagined you running to your boyfriend, like I’d run to my husband, feeling completely overjoyed by the compliment. This ‘hypothetically speaking’ act made me smile, made me giggle!
Posted by keepingitreal | November 30, 2012, 7:03 pmHah I see now, I must keep this in mind
Posted by lly1205 | November 30, 2012, 7:05 pmOf all things, I bought a bathing suit online. Big mistake!! Then, I sent it back for another and that didn’t work either! I’m NEVER doing that again. I must try clothes on I decided, although sometimes it’s so tempting.
Posted by The Bumble Files | December 1, 2012, 11:58 pmOh, I made the same mistake this past summer before going on vacation. When I received the bikini bottoms they appeared two sizes too small. I’m with you, I’ll NEVER order a bathing suit online again either. Even if the entire suit is on sale for $11.99!
Posted by keepingitreal | December 2, 2012, 10:10 amOh, online shopping…love it! I wouldn’t say I’m impulsive but I do prefer shopping online, even for clothes. I always feel like it’s Christmas when there’s a package left at the door! That’s the best part. As long as there’s a good return policy, I’ll buy whatever. And if it doesn’t fit, then I return it and save myself the money. Works for me.
Posted by Don't Quote Lily | December 2, 2012, 11:32 amThe packages left at the door are absolutely the BEST part of online shopping. I feel like a kid each time I open one. I will keep ordering items online as long as there is a decent return policy like you said. I am currently hunting for a good deal on a North Face jacket.
Posted by keepingitreal | December 2, 2012, 11:42 amNordstrom is awesome (when there’s sales) because it’s free shipping and free returns ALWAYS! And if you can return IN store, like with most stores, that’s a win for me.
Good luck with the jacket!
Posted by Don't Quote Lily | December 2, 2012, 11:46 amThanks for the tip, Lily! I will definitely check out Nordstrom’s site. I usually find good deals on Zappos too!
Posted by keepingitreal | December 2, 2012, 12:13 pmI absolutely hate trying on clothes! I like to buy them but hate to try them on:) I am very tall also so to go to the mall and get my hopes up is officially over for me:) So now I have a few websites that I have found that sell clothes for tall women and I order a bunch at a time. Often times the clothes end up being too big around the waste. I then just let my husband take them to our tailor and get them altered! Lazy I know…but if I have to ship it back then I will. I still think that is easier than trying on 50 outfits just to buy one or two…IDK I am weird though
That dress looked wonderful btw online, I can see how you had to have it:)
Posted by reaching4hishem | December 4, 2012, 7:01 pmShopping is a distant memory.. Before babies, I would blow my paycheck in a few hours at the mall. Now, I’m lucky if I buy anything for myself, and if so, it is probably ordered online. No excitement of wandering through colorful stores, grabbing a coffee, people watching–all while searching for that “perfect” item. Last night, I ordered a pair of shoes… I wanted to go out shoe-shopping, but after thinking about the stress of going out with the baby and the toddler, I hung my coat back up, sat down, and opened the laptop. =/
(p.s.-just found your blog, love it!)
Posted by mommybluebird | December 21, 2012, 5:45 pmI know exactly what you mean about losing all the wind in your sails when it comes to shopping. It’s definitely NOT the same when you have little ones. Funny that you mention ordering shoes online because it’s one of my guilty pleasures! Always a guaranteed mood lifter. I am happy to have ‘met’ you! Thanks for stopping by and have a lovely evening!
Posted by Keeping it Real | December 21, 2012, 5:59 pm